Wednesday, August 29, 2012

TeamSim Update: The December 2012 Mission

TeamSim Update: The December 2012 Mission

Dear Friends,
After six years I’m just beginning to emerge on a hillside.From here I’m able to see not only where I’ve been but where I’m going. With each passing year and each passing mission to Ukraine God is revealing his plan — step-by-step. I can see where orphan ministry is heading in Simferopol, Ukraine.

Over the next few weeks I’ll be sharing some exciting news about how God is changing lives and winning hearts in Simferopol.

The December 2012 Mission:  I’m actively recruiting a team to return to Simferopol in December, 2012. We’ll be ministering to the children living in two orphan facilities —  Detskyi Dom (DD), a 50-bed children’s home and Gagarin School for Girls. We’ve worked in both of these facilities. The Gagarin School serves about 75-90 orphaned girls (ages 5-17) as well as girls from low-income homes. We’ll be focusing more on supporting this facility in the future. 


Anya Goliakova (pictured here with me in June 2012) is
Director of education at Gagrin School for Girls in Simferopol.
Anya has served on our team in past years as a mentor.
Now it's our turn to serve her and the kids at her school.
NEXT WEEK: I’ll be establishing the team funding site for the 12/12 mission so that we can begin an aggressive funding campaign. I’ll be posting and sending a link in a few days so you can donate securely online.

Each team member will need to raise $3400 for the trip. The cost also includes support for the expenses of one of our team’s Ukrainian 12-3-1 Mentors. We will need to raise 50% by Oct 1 and 100% by Nov 1. I’m praying you will all be considering supporting us as we share Christ with approximately 100-125 at-risk and orphaned children at the start of this year’s holiday season in Simferopol, Ukraine.

Stay logged in! More news coming soon!

Peace and Grace,
Joel
Volunteer Team Lead - Simferopol, Ukraine
YouthReach International

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Cheer Up! God is right there with you.


"When doubts began to fill my mind, your comfort renewed my hope and cheer" ~Psalm 94:19. Today, when doubts begin to overwhelm you remember this: God is always beside you to comfort you and bring you hope. Cheer up! // "Когда сомнения начал заполнять мой взгляд, ваш комфорт обновляется моя надежда и радость" ~ Псалом 94:19. Сегодня, когда сомнения начинают подавлять вас помнить: Бог всегда рядом с вами, чтобы утешить вас и принести вам надежду. Не унывай!

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Ever wake up soaked in the morning?

"But each day the LORD pours his unfailing love upon me, and through each night I sing his songs, praying to God who gives me life." Psalm 42:8



Tuesday, August 14, 2012

December Outreach Mission Recruiting is Underway!


Recruiting is fully underway for YouthReach International's TeamSim December outreach mission to the orphans of Simferopol. Looking for able bodies who are willing servants. If you want to impact the lives of others...this is your calling. We'll spend 12 days on the ground with orphaned children in a day-camp setting in their orphanage. We partner with local Ukrainian Christians we call 12-3-1 Mentors who contnue the team's ministry throughout the year.

You can make a difference in this dark world for good. 1 in 7 orphans will not survive beyond the first year after leaving the orphanage system at age 16. many will succumb to prostitution, crime and violence. Some end up on the sex-slave black market. Many will take their own lives due to the hopelessness and "friendlessness" they feel.

GUYS NEEDED: The boys we minister to desperately need guy mentors. If you like hanging out with the guys, talking sports, hunting, auto-mechanics, kung-fu, getting dirt under your nails, etc. These boys need you. Don't be a chicken. C'mon!

No special skills required! Must love kids (heck, you don't even have to love kids (yet). However, must love eggs*

It'll change your life....and the life of a child.
make a friend today. change a life forever
visit www.youthreach.org for more information on 12-3-1 mentoring and our strategy. Besure and click the follow button.

Facebook: You can also find team updates on Facebook by searching "TeamSim".

DETAILS:
Dates: Dec 4-18 (We'll be home by Christmas)
Funding Required: $3400/person
Team Meetings/training begin Sun Aug 26 (Bi-weekly)
Our funding website will be available soon.

DEADLINES:
Deadlines:
Sign-Ups: Aug 31
50% Funding: Oct 1
100% Funding: Nov 1

(We eat A LOT of eggs....A LOT) ba-kaaaaw!!! Sorry. Flashbacks.

Monday, July 23, 2012

July 2012 Update

Dear friends,

Here’s a report on the team’s summer activities.

June 2012 Camp in Simferopol: In early june this summer US team members, Haley Harrell, Jordyn Harry and I,  traveled from Nashville through NYC and Moscow to arrive in Simferopol, Crimea (Ukraine). We flew directly to Simferopol as opposed to flying to Kiev and then going by train to SImf. This made travel faster and easier. We recovered from jet lag much faster. This summer we worked in 2 facilities.

Last year we taught a series of lessons called Guardrails. Last summer we started teaching the concept of an intentionally placed barrier that will cause use to self-trigger as we approach sin. Last year’s Guardrails pertained to our friendships (e.g. how to choose the right friends). This year’s Guardrails related to our attitudes toward these topics:

  • Knowing who we are (God’s creation and His children)
  • Giving (what we have and not being possessive)
  • Lifting others up (instead of tearing them down)
  • Serving others (like crazy)
  • Obeying God fully (and following Jesus)

One of the most positive outcomes of the camp trip was a meeting held on Tuesday at Gagarin School for Girls. Attending the meeting were several representatives of organizations, a local church and a foster home, as well as several other individuals including 2 former orphans. These people represent those who are serving the orphans in the school. It was particularly exciting to see the network begin to form through the efforts of Dmitry Malashko of Simferopol SOS Foundation. Dima has completed the “Ukraine Without Orphans” course training and desires to establish a “Crimea Without Orphans” network.

Eastern European Missions delivered several boxes of Bibles to be distributed to the two orphanages upon the team’s request.

Gagarin School for Girls - this former internacht houses 99 girls ranging in age from 5-18. Most residents are from poor income families or are social orphans meaning they have no parents and may live with relatives or guardians or are wards of the state due to abusive or neglectful circumstances. A 20-30% of the girls are true orphans meaning no family. Most of the kids were already departed for the summer. However we worked with about 12 kids remaining at the school.

Even though the number of children was low it was a critical time for our team. We used this time to pave the way for future camps. By getting to know this small handful of kids we will have gained the interests of the other kids.

There was a set of twins in the older group, Yulia and Alyona. Both were very curious and wanted to know more about the grace of Jesus, why we struggle in life, why God allows suffering. They had many questions and concerns. Yulia was the first to engage us. The next day she brought her twin sister Alyona, who was 6-months pregnant. On that day we prayed over Alyona and her unborn baby boy. It was a very emotional moment for us as a team. It’s this type of situation that perpetuates the orphan problem.

On another day we were teaching about “serving”. Attending our group was a teenager named Marina and her younger sister Katya. As we were working on crafts for that day, I looked to notice Marina quietly helping her sister. I said to the team, “Guys, look here.  We are witnessing a ‘serving attitude’ right here.”

Detskyi Dom of Simferopol -  We have had a presence in this small 50 bed facility fsince 2010. The June camp marked our 4th camp in 2 years. We ate 2 meals each day at this facility and spent every afternoon working with the kids here. There were 18-20 new kids at the home this summer. As many as eight had been adopted by Ukrainian or Italian families the rest had either graduated or returned to live at home with relatives.

Personally speaking, one of the most impactive moments occurred on Thursday. After teaching about serving others, I decided on the spur of the moment to demonstrate how Jesus served his disciples by washing their feet. I asked for a tub, some water, a towel, and a volunteer. A young girl, Polina, was chosen. She came forward and sat in the chair. As I began to talk about how Jesus washed the disciples feet and its significance, she began to squirm. It took quite a bit of convincing her (thanks to mentors Nastya and Masha) before she allowed me to proceed. The funny thing is that several girls jumped up and ran. I thought they were looking for an opportunity of escaping what they thought was a boring class. Later I was told they were seen racing into the bathroom to wash their own feet for fear I would make them participate. They didn’t want me to see that their feet were dirty.

In addition one of the older girls, Adile, asked lots of questions and always said “Thank you for the lesson.” A couple of the older boys and even one very quiet girl opened up to Nastya toward the end of the week. While that might not seem like much, it represents a gigantic and imperative leap forward in building the relationships needed to mentor a child. We have to develop trust first before we can hope to reap anything from the seeds we plant. Younger children are easier to build relationships with. Typically with teens we use the phrase “closed to our friendship”. Often they have been left relationally empty-handed, so distrust is a natural emotional self-defense mechanism. Patience and unconditional love provide the best tactics. It’s not we get out of the relationship but more importantly what THEY get...LOVE.

Want to make a difference in the life of a child? Go with me!: I’m just now beginning making plans to return, most likely, in early December of the year. We’ll be home before Christmas. Contact me if you’d like to go. Costs are usually in the $3500/person neighborhood. We can talk about where the finances come from and I’ll get you fully prepared, don’t worry. Please don’t let the notion of money or work stop you. You’ll raise what you need and many will be blessed. Don’t worry that you family can’t do without you. they can survive. You and your family will be blessed in the time-sacrifice you’ve made.

PRAYER:
- Gagarin: Please pray over this facility and the resident girls as well as the staff at Gagarin School. There are chronic behavioural issues as well as alcohol use and promiscuity among the older girls. You may recall that a 14-year old girl took her own life this past spring. Pray also for Alyona and her baby.
- Detskyi Dom: Pray that we will be able to reach these kids. They are heavily influenced by the world around them, pop-culture, and the desire to fit in. In general, the kids at this orphan home are more socially  adapted. However, the home is not without its behavioral issues. Pray that the Holy Spirit will soften the hearts of these children to receive the story of God’s grace and lives will be changed.
- Anya Goliakova: She is a teammate who is on permanent staff as asst. principal at the school. She has a very difficult job with long hours and little time for herself. Even when on vacation or after work hours her phone rings continually with calls from the school. She is making strides in showing the girls the love of Christ. One girl, Tanya, has quit smoking and drinking. I also noticed on a Russian-speaking social network that she is listening to contemporary Christian music.
- Vika Vdovichenko: Vika recently joined a local college campus ministry as the social outreach coordinator. Her new role will be to recruit college students into their program in order to teach them about Christ. Secondarily, she will train them as mentors in a future program focused on reaching out to orphan graduates attending trade schools and underprivileged college students as well as institutionalized orphans.

- Social Outreach Center: Team member A partnership is being formed to fund and establish a social outreach center to be used as a meeting place for orphanage graduates, trade school & college students and a supported house church. Please be in prayer that God will provide the funding needed to build this vital outreach center.
- Nastya Skovorodnykova: Nastya continues to mentor to the children living at the Detskyi Dom of Simferopol in addition to maintaining her full-time job at International Institute of Intercultural Communication and Crimean-American College. Nastya spends a portion of her free time (at her own expense) to visit the children and maintain our connections several times each month. Lately Nastya has been asking the Holy Spirit to show her more ways she can serve. This August, she will serve an orphan outreach ministry at Gvardeskii village orphanage for special needs children as an interpreter for Americans from Southeast Christian Church in Louisville.




Other Highlights:
- Arthur conducted the June birthday gift program at Detskyi Dom
- Reunited with my old friend Igor form Gvardeskii whom I met in 2008 when he was an orphan
- Team member Haley Harrell conducted an orphan art project
- Our friends at home raised enough funds for us to locally purchase much needed flip-flops for the 50 children at Detskyi Dom. We had enough to also purchase sports equipment for Gagarin School.
- Team mentor Violetta Alimova graduated from college and received her diploma.
- Delivered 2 donated digital cameras to 2 of our mentors to use during orphanage visits
- Team Mentor Sasha Lifintseva participated in a camp held in Eastern Ukraine in July
Thank you for your ongoing support and prayer. Without your help these kids would never know the love of Christ or of god’s grace. You ARE making a difference.

Peace and grace.
Joel



 


 
 

 


 





Monday, May 7, 2012

"Social Orphanhood in Ukraine: Massive Child Neglect and Abandonment


(Tony Morrow-YRI)
Excerpt from a research paper presented recently (October 2011) by an Ed.D. Candidate (Alla Korzh) at the "Seventh Annual Danyliw Research Seminar in Contemporary Ukrainian Studies".  The paper provides a clear description of the orphan situation in Ukraine, and a solid foundation from which explains why  YouthReach International initiatives in Ukraine are so critically important.   

"Social Orphanhood in Ukraine: Massive Child Neglect and Abandonment 

Socio-demographic shifts accompanied by the economic crisis, unemployment, and labor migration have consequently affected the social fabric, where historically established family values and bonds were breaking down rapidly for the first time in Ukrainian history (Artiuh et al., 2006; Balakireva et al., 2000; Perelli-Harris, 2008). Such socio-economic instability led to an increase in divorce and single-parent families. Additionally, escalating unemployment and the absence of state assistance services drove many Ukrainian parents into dire poverty and substance abuse, which deteriorated social morale and parental responsibilities, pushing many parents to force their children to beg on the streets (Balakireva et al., 2004). Binge drinking, drug addiction, and physical abuse in the family triggered an increased number of troubled families, prone to abandoning or neglecting their children altogether (Artiuh et al., 2001, 2006; Balakireva et al., 2000). Seventy percent of parents leading such a life style – primarily from alcoholism – abandoned their children in 2006, up from 58 percent in 2004 to 70 percent in 2006 (Artiuh et al., 2006). In 2005, there were approximately 44,919 troubled families, where 93,548 children lived (Artiuh et al., 2006). In 2008, the number of such families reached 80,000 (Ukrainian State Statistics Committee,
2008).

An estimated number of biological and social orphans in Ukraine fluctuate from 103,000 to 115,000 due to inaccurate statistical data reported in Ukraine, where approximately 11,000 of those biological and social orphans are institutionalized in state-run orphanages until the age of 18 (Balakireva et al., 2010). Biological orphans are children who have no living parents. Social orphans are children with living parents, either abandoned by their parents or removed from troubled families – where one or both parents are alcoholics, drug-addicts, incarcerated, or missing – and thus deprived of parental care (Artiuh et al., 2006; Balakireva et al., 2000). Ninety percent of the entire orphans population are social orphans. In this paper, I will be using an “orphan” term for a biological orphan and a commonly interchangeable term “children deprived of parental care” to refer to social orphans. 

As a result of rough experiences in abusive families and later in highly-regimented orphanages as well as limited opportunities available to these youths when they enter 
adult life, many of them become susceptible to drugs, alcohol, crime, prostitution, and suicide. According to non-governmental organizations in Ukraine and the United States, 10 percent of orphans commit suicide after leaving their orphanage before turning 18. Moreover, 60 percent of girls end up in prostitution, while 60 percent of boys engage in crime (Home for Every Orphan, 2010; Ukraine Orphans Outreach, 2010). 

Orphanage schooling, substituting for families’ care and upbringing, falls short of providing Ukrainian orphanage children with knowledge and skills to survive on their own. Typically truncated curriculum, inadequately trained personnel working with many psychologically traumatized orphans and children deprived of parental care and low teacher and upbringer [Upgringer (in Ukrainian: vyhovatel) is responsible for supervising orphans' development in the orphanage, including their education and behavior. He/she holds a two-hour "prep time" daily after class. This time is designated for homework done in class.] expectations about children’s potential fail to provide quality 
educational preparation for further educational pursuits. All of this ultimately sets them up, at best, for a vocational track pipeline. 

Vocational education rarely leads to socio-economic stability in Ukraine. The quality of vocational education has deteriorated since the collapse of the Soviet Union 
(MESU, 2003). Many vocational schools are still teaching the curriculum designed for a centralized economy, rather than revamping it to meet the needs of a market economy (Hellwig & Lipenkowa, 2007; MESU, 2003). While vocational education is perceived as a fast and easy track for manual skills acquisition, it rarely serves as a platform for economic stability. Entering universities, seen by many orphans and children deprived of parental care as well as Ukrainian society as a whole as a means of social mobility and success, becomes virtually impossible for these children.

The difficulty of entering universities lies not in the outright denial of access to higher education, but rather in the quality of education offered in orphanages and the level of corruption in university admissions, all of which exacerbate orphans’ limited future opportunities. According to Article 52 of the Constitution of Ukraine, the government is responsible for providing free public secondary, vocational, and higher education on a non-competitive basis to orphans until 23 years of age. Although all public universities are required to give priority to these vulnerable youths, some universities do not abide by the law and keep the ‘free’ spots for those willing to give bribes. This further traps these children in structural inequalities and pushes them to succumb to the low-quality education of vocational schools."

You can read the rest of the research paper by clicking on the link below:

Korzh, A. (2011, October 20-22). Metamorphosis of the Role of Education in Ukraine Through the Prism of Ukrainian Disadvantaged Youths. Chair of Ukrainian Studies. Retrieved January 6, 2012, from http://www.ukrainianstudies.uottawa.ca/pdf/P_Danyliw2011_Korzh.pdf